Friday, August 30, 2013

Off babysitting fun and good therapy


My three-year-old cousin came over for a sleepover a few weeks ago. It was sort of a sleepover- babysitting mix since she's quite young and we have to be careful she doesn't get lonely or starts missing her mom. It is always good to spend a chunk of your time with a toddler every once in a while. Makes you look at things a little differently, alters perspectives and brings out the quirky, silly side of you as you put aside all your worries, deadlines and just immerse yourself in the wonderful world of legos, nursery rhymes and hide n' seek. Ah, the best things in life! It is really good therapy :) an effective detoxification of all negative thoughts and frustrations that usually surround us. Provided - of course - that the kid you spend time with is not a nasty spoiled brat, throwing tantrums (and other stuff), making you run all over the place to save precious decoration items and walls from being scribbled on! That's a  kidazilla. Warning: never ever take on a kidazilla willingly :)







      (Animal Olympics anyone? Jumping from a height into a boat of water. Note: no casualties reported)

           
                                

                                    (Nothing like a little lego sport land built with a ludo board!)




                                                                         (R2-D2?)
                                                         

                                      (A really tall lego statue-guy with a really tall hat too!)


Sunday, January 01, 2012

Sometimes questions have no answers


"Be satisfied if you are alone. No
one will accompany you in the
grave except your good deeds,
anyway. Focus on doing good
deeds, not on him and her.."
"Allah never throws you deeper than
you can go. He throws you from such
a height were He knows yes you may
fall, gain a few scratches, and open
wounds, but He also knows how much
sabr, tolerance and will power you
have to stand back up. Yes we all
complain, moan and cry saying ‘Why
Me!’ but why do we forget this life is a
test; Allah is making you, not breaking
you. He is by your side, He is your
shadow and your guiding light."

These two quotes I came across today gave me a lot of hope and I feel like doing the right things in my life even more. I want to make amends and just try my best to adjust to situations in the best way possible. May everyone gain guidance and faith in this world and be able to deal with various situations in life effectively! Sometimes you think you're doing the right thing but hurdles keep blocking your path and you feel like your stuck in the worst possible place. Just sit down, reflect, seek Allah's help and do the best possible thing after that...

Monday, December 26, 2011

Life is a mixed bag


I feel like this picture perfectly reflects a person's two-sided personality. One... free to express whatever he/she wants to express and the other enslaved and entrapped by various shackles around us (which, most of the time, are self-imposed and self-inflicted.) This is the sad story of humankind.

I've learned the greatest lesson of my life these past few months, which has made me very aware of all things around me. Never before was the message ever clear. Life is a mixed bag. Take what you get and appreciate it no matter what the consequences because you could all just lose it one day!

Tuesday, September 06, 2011

What do ya know...

"Conscience is harder than our enemies,
Knows more, accuses with more nicety."

George Eliot

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Eid mubarak!


(Saw this very cute picture of my favourite childhood cartoon character, Postman Pat and his black and white cat - just had to put it up!)



Eid Mubarak everyone! :)
TaqabbAllahu minna wa minkum! (may Allah accept from us and you i.e. the fasting and acts of worship and charity) May this Eid bring peace, prosperity and happiness (genuine happiness!) to all the people in this city of Karachi, in this country and all over the globe! :) And while you're partying don't forget to help any needy person around you and also don't forget to pray for all those living in the worse of conditions who you cannot or are unable to reach out to!

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Ramadan mubarak!



I couldn't miss out on such an excellent opportunity to put up a colorful picture on my blog to celebrate the month of Ramadan! For those who don't know, this month is a very special month for Muslims. We fast from dawn to dusk and then... as soon as the muezzin starts the call for Maghrib prayer, we stuff ourselves - like a pack of hungry hyenas - with all the food lying within a ten mile radius! Haahaa! No, that's just me kidding. Ramadan isn't about keeping away from food the whole day and then binging on samosas, jalebis, chicken tikkas, fruit chat, dates, juice, pizzas and all that food you daydreamed and drooled about during the day! It is about much more than that. Yes, believe me :) even though it might seem to revolve around just food if you happened to stroll into a 'all-you-can-eat' restaurant at Iftari or Suhoor time. Some people make it the month of eating only and that's kind of missing the spirit and meaning of Ramadan. Ramadan is about much more than just food, as I elaborate:

Self-restraint, cultivating good habits and lifestyles (not just in the matter of eating though :)), being extra generous in your donations and zakat (many of the hospitals, NGOs and charity organizations go the extra mile to advertise their work so that people looking to give donations know just where they can give where people will be maximally benefited) , learning to control your anger/frustration while in a hypoglycemic state - which tends to make you a tab bit more cranky than during most times of the year actually :) and the overall feeling of charity and goodness that accompanies this month. The extra acts of worship that Muslims perform during this month because the reward for doing good deeds is not only tripled but quadrupled and five-rupled in many cases. My favorite act of worship is Taraweeh because listening to the Quran being recited in a loud voice in a huge congregation is an absolute treat. So calming and liberating. Lifts all the burdens from one's life!

And I just love the serenity and tranquility of Ramadan evenings. Just no comparison to other evenings of the year. They are so cool and calm despite the fact that the weather in Karachi is normally quite hot and humid. And the last ten days of Ramadan - the days in which one can attain freedom and refuge from the hellfire by maximum worship. Aisha (Ra), the wife of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) reported that: "With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet (pbuh) used to tighten his waist belt (i.e. work harder) and used to pray the whole night, and used to wake his family for prayer at night." (Bukhari)


Friday, August 12, 2011

Something to think about...

“Say (O Mohammed) “If you do love Allah, follow me, Allah will love you, and forgive your sins, as Allah is All-Forgiving, All-Merciful”. Surah Imrân (3:31)

Thursday, August 04, 2011

Real happiness



Amazing video, MashAllah! I love the message of it and I came across it at just the right point in life. Regretting about what happened in the past will do nothing to change your future or make it better. Feel liberated and light after listening to it :)

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Feeling tiny

This is an absolutely amazing video! It compares the sizes of the planets and the sun with stars of other solar systems. The figures are staggering. You're head starts to spin after a few seconds of information, both because of being boggled by the sheer scale of our planets and by the realization that we're just an itty bitty, teeny tiny being in this vast universe! Feel extremely diminutive at the moment! Truth is definitely stranger than fiction :)


Thursday, July 21, 2011

Busy, busy, busy!


My third semester of BDS (Bachelors of Dental Science) was extremely busy, so much so that I wasn't able to upload anything on my blog after the exciting, explosive cricket match of the century - between India and Pakistan (unless you happen to live under a rock, you might have heard about it. The excitement and tension was tangible - impossible to miss!). As I mentioned previously, I was extremely busy this semester doing all sorts of things. The following are a couple of things that kept me occupied this semester:

1. Studies for one was the last thing on my mind this semester - which was pretty pathetic (yes, pathetic! I felt absolutely pathetic by the end) since then there was a huge pile of stuff I hadn't studied by the end of the semester and time was, well - obviously - not on my side. For the first time in my college years, I suddenly found myself cramming things/concepts/theories/teeth size/pharmacology at the very last moment - like an utter m-a-n-i-a-c. I entirely went against my own study mottoes, beliefs regarding studies... it was a huge fiasco and things got very tricky when exams suddenly popped up of nowhere a week or two earlier than expected and our oral biology department - crazy and utterly disorganized as they are - suddenly decided that this was the opportune moment to suddenly load us with a research project that required a lot of running around and taking impressions of patients - who we had to summon/ conjure up out of nowhere! And if that wasn't enough, we had a whole platter of other things going on at the end of the semester which are quite a lot and jumble-y to explain!

2. Secondly , a research project (other than which I previously mentioned) was assigned to our batch by the community department of our college. Alhamdolillah (Thank God) , however, it was assigned at the beginning of the semester and we had ample time to deal this research thingy. It was also, unlike the Oral department research project, organized and well-thought out even though it too had it's share of problems - but every project does come with it's portion of problems so we didn't mind much.

This was the first time my fellow students and I had come close to anything research-y. We got to learn the ABC's of research. Also, our batch was divided into groups of ten with each group being given a particular topic to focus on. My group and I were assigned the topic of 'Oral health practices of mentally handicapped individuals' which was a very interesting, but was a bit challenging because we had to do a lot of literature review and then gather our information from a special school for mentally challenged individuals, in Karachi.

This research project was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed doing it. But like any research project it was time-consuming and had its own share of problems, ups and downs, unexpected turns and twists - at unexpected times! Sometimes, all our work was done and the head of department suddenly felt like making a change - out of the blue - and then we would start from scratch. In the end, our whole group got really tired of the work - not because it wasn't fun or interesting but because it got so hectic that we hardly found time to study. All in all, I'm still glad we did it because a learned loads and my first visit to an institute for the mentally challenged individuals was absolutely amazing, eye-opening, humbling and energizing.

3. Visiting relatives. It's funny but somehow relatives always end up visiting at the peak of your exams. This has been happening since my very semester. I'm learning to get a hang of it now and know just how to adjust to exam time relatives.

4. Other activities: I had not participated in a debate competition since my school years and I suddenly felt compelled to take part in one. A month or so was spend in trying out for a couple of inter-college debate competitions. It was a really refreshing experience. Studying purely science and making that your subject of focus is tricky gamble. On one side, you do gain a lot of knowledge related to your body - but the overall process can make you a bit dull and drain your creativity - especially if you're attending a government college where most of the time the learning procedure and the exam layout is based more on the rote-learn principle, rather than learning through interaction. Sad really. But one has to make the most of everything in life. I rarely quote singers, but some of them can wittingly - or unwittingly - utter (sing) words of great wisdom. As Avril Lavigne says (I can't believe I'm doing this! lol) :

"Life's like this, you
And you fall and you crawl
And you break and you take
What you get and you turn it into
Honesty Promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it."

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Fireflies



This is such a cute song. One could never get tired of listening to it. It reminds me of quirky Timon from Lion King and his 'expert' opinion on what fireflies are:

Pumbaa: Hey, Timon, ever wonder what those sparkly dots are up there?
Timon: Pumbaa, I don't wonder; I know.
Pumbaa: Oh. What are they?
Timon: They're fireflies. Fireflies that, uh... got stuck up on that big bluish-black thing.
Pumbaa: Oh, gee. I always thought they were balls of gas burning billions of miles away.
Timon: Pumbaa, with you, everything's gas.

Haahaa! Cuteness has reached it's peak.


Sunday, June 05, 2011

A fun week!


(Abstract art. We created great masterpieces that day)


(It's alive!)


(My six year old cousin's paintings were just amazing. She has a very creative mind - mashAllah!- and has a good idea of the right color blends. I couldn't help but save all her drawings. That rainbow thingy drawing in the background was painted by her!)


(...battle scars?)

The week long holidays following the last day of my final exams - yes, sadly, we only got one week off but since we get so many surprise holidays in Karachi anyway these days, I figured it was maybe better this way and tried to be happy. I squeezed in all possible non-study activities that I could possibly stuff in that week. From baking to painting, from watching movies to entertaining cute six-year old cousins on sleepovers (and being entertained back with lots of funny and witty comments!) It was a fun week :)

Friday, April 01, 2011

The decision stands

We congratulate India on wining the semifinal. As a good will gesture, India can keep Pakistan's prime minister :) and if you win the finals, we will send our president too :P

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

India Pakistan match - just a game or WAR?


Green is made by crushing yellow and blue! We have already defeated the yellow kangaroos. Now... time to beat the blue team in great style!

This is a bit too mean. But gives you an idea of the intense tension between the two sides. This isn't a game. This is war! Although, I feel extremely stupid to say something like that. Should be speaking more sensibly. Ah, well... let me just shove my sensible side into the corner for today!


You can imagine just what they might be thinking: "We are playing for the fun of the game. You know... good cricket! *laugh* Yeah right. We are bringing you down on 30th March!"


Did I mention how much this match means to each and every person in the Indian subcontinent? I received about a hundred or more messages on my mobile in the past three four days requesting I pray for the Pakistan team day and night!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

My next-door neighbours!


(Could this classify as spying? I was merely curious as to how life is on my little farm-ville.)



(This was a really difficult picture to take from my window- all the way from the fourth floor. Felt proud of my focusing abilities later on :))



(Preparing the animal feed)

I live next door to living things which either bleat, cluck, quack or moo. No, I do not live on a farm. I live on the fourth floor, in apartments. So where do the farm animals come in from? What are they doing all the way up on the fourth floor? Well, they are not really on the fourth floor but reside on the empty plot next to my apartment building. However, that does not make them any less a next-door neighbour - since the racket they make is sure to fit one!

It does sound strange, but this is how life is in this part of the world. Man and beast live quite close to each other. You find farm animals in the most unexpected of places. In Karachi, not only are they found wandering in the old streets but sometimes in some of the busiest industrial areas – like Korangi, for instance. I remember when I used to go to a school in that area, our everyday journey was often interrupted by a herd of goats crossing the road – no doubt, to get to the other side where the grass was – perhaps - greener. They never seriously bothered me or the driver of my van. In fact, I found them very amusing. Having lived most of my childhood outside the country, I was fascinated with farm animals and goats - even more so, when they were wandering in a busy industrial area, amidst the smoke, broken roads and honking cars. Why, they might just classify as the eighth wonder of the world!

They are, indeed, an amazing sight to behold in such a scene of human chaos and confusion. With a vacant, faraway expression in their eyes, the goats stroll their way around the jam-packed smoky area, lazily watching drivers fret and fume as they maneuver their vehicles away from the huge craters and cracks in the road. Some of those delicate-looking creatures are even audacious enough to idly chew on scattered tufts of grass- all the time watching, with nonchalant-expressions, the ‘advanced’ specie struggle as chunks of tasty grass churn around in their mouth. You can imagine what they might be thinking: ‘Absolutely marvelous. Indeed. The grass on this side is surely greener.’

My next-door neighbours have an even more carefree life than the idle goats described above. They have three to four caretakers, whose sole purpose in life (it seems) is to serve those animals. From cooking to cleaning, they take care of everything. Chopped veggies for dinner and peels of orange for dessert… ah! This is the life. What more could a farm animal want? It is interesting to watch their day to day routine. And the best part is that it hardly qualifies as spying.

My family and I have come to really love our neighbours (even if they do get a little noisy at night). During the monsoon season, we watch as the ducks stand absolutely still under the shower of rain. This is their odd way of celebrating - taking in one drop at a time. But the cows and goats don’t really fancy the rain. They quickly scurry to the sheds as soon as the downpour starts. During the summers, the goats like to bask in the sun, lying flat on the warm ground soaking up sunshine, while the cows enjoy the cool shade of a tree planted nearby, their tails swishing away perpetually at annoying flies. All is beautiful harmony on this cute, little city farm.

Just before Eid-ul-azha – a period of festival for us Muslims after Hajj, spanning over three days, during which we sacrifice an animal for the pleasure of God - their population increases dramatically as the caretakers bring in more animals from elsewhere for sale around the city. The variety to be seen is astounding. I never knew there were so many different kinds of goats. And on the actual day of celebrations, a cow is sacrificed on the farm and a meat dish is prepared for the farm laborers. They have a humble meal in their courtyard, all sitting around the mat they usually offer prayers on. Their little gathering always reminds me of the feast that Bathsheba arranges for her farm hands in “Far from the Madding Crowd”, as a celebration after the annual shearing of the sheep.

So far, there aren’t any signs that the empty plot of land might be turned into a tall concrete building. And I dearly hope that such a thing does not happen for I would sorely miss my entertaining Farmville. It may be noisy and a tad stinky but it gives a nice twist to apartment life.

P.S. I have a couple of more pictures of this little city farm stocked away. Will upload them later (inshAllah)!

Tuesday, February 08, 2011

Wisdom from an escaped convict

If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals.

Sirius Black
Goblet of Fire, Chapter 27, Page 525

Friday, February 04, 2011

Ka-ching!



Cute. Love the rhyming.

"We live in a greedy little world-
that teaches every little boy and girl
To earn as much as they can possibly-
then turn around and
Spend it foolishly
We've created us a credit card mess
We spend the money that we don't possess
Our religion is to go and blow it all
So it's shoppin' every Sunday at the mall."

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Teaching – a tasking job

I had always lived under the impression that teaching was very easy thing to do as long as you had clear concepts and knew the in and outs of the subject you were teaching. Boy, was I in for a surprise when I started teaching!

Having experienced a bunch of horrible teachers during my O level years, I had resolved that, one day, I would become a teacher (no - a good teacher) and show all those teachers that it was possible to become a good teacher provided you worked hard and were dedicated enough.

However, before I elaborate on what I learned during my teaching ‘adventure’- which is no less turbulent than a wild roller coaster ride - I just want to clarify that the teachers who I refer to as ‘horrible’ were indeed quite horrible, and made no effort to be otherwise. The students were eager to learn and not rowdy. There was absolutely no barrier to the teaching process – except, perhaps, the unwillingness of the educator. I remember how many of my teachers wasted time in idle talk - some even singing songs in class and asking for student volunteers to recite naat. My Physics teacher was more eager to show us pictures of himself with a famous Cricket player instead of teaching us the three laws of Newton. Our Pakistan studies teacher was more interested in discussing her life and ours - rather than the struggles it took to make Pakistan. We learned about those struggles during our own ‘little protests’ to get good teachers.

The French Revolution was on. We drove a lot of teachers out of school by our protests. Many met Madame Guillotine. Others were driven out by… well, let me just safely say, by 'other means’. Our headmistress had no solutions to offer, and explained how they could not arrange good teachers because our school was in “the middle of nowhere”. Tuitions were the temporary solution for us desperate students at that time. It was then, that becoming a teacher ended up on my ‘things-to-do-when-I grow-up’ list. All those grueling hours spent with good teachers at tuitions made me realize how important it is to have good teachers. A good teacher can make even the boring mechanics of D.C motor as fun and entertaining as watching an action-packed movie, like Speed or Predator.

Self-study is surely great and does help you overcome any lacking at school but it can only take you so far. At the end of the day, what your teacher taught you is more likely to come back to you in those tense exam moments - and also help later in life. 'Studying is vector quantity, it should have both magnitude and direction' my tuition sir used to say. That saying has helped me out in many a walks of life, particularly when I'm going through my fat medical books, with their itty-bitty font size.

Anyhow, no amount of learning and preparation could have prepared me for the teaching experience. One day the doorbell rang during the summers and I got my self an eager student. When I started teaching her, all the things my teachers had ever said in class came back to me in a rush. It was déjà vu, multiplied a thousand times over. Scary was the word.

“The problem is that you people don’t listen when I’m teaching.”

“Do you think it’s easy for us teach continuously for six periods?”

“Pay attention.”

“Keep quiet and pay attention.”

A boarding the teacher express, I discovered that clear concepts and hard work - alone - were not enough to make a good teacher out of you. There was a whole lot of patience needed, along with military-style tactics. Yes, tactics. Tactics to keep your student captivated as he/she would be to the television screen. As Gail Godwin has very rightly and astutely pointed out, "Good teaching is one-fourth preparation and three-fourths theater."

As a teacher, you have to drill concepts into the other person’s head, who – much to your infuriation and indignation - is usually lost in his/her own thoughts most of the time. Repeating a statement three to four times becomes a norm and you often spend hours explaining something only to be met by a vacant, confused expression. Learn to live with and love that expression. Something as difficult as ‘every reaction has an equal but opposite reaction’ is easier to absorb than the definition of force. Also, anything you say and do may be held against you in a court of law.

There are few teachers who have the ability to captivate their student audience to the extent that they have their utmost attention - and affection. And that, too, without working too hard. They simply develop a relationship with their students like that of a well oiled machine whose cogs fit perfectly. Friction is brought to a zero. Output becomes maximum. Curiosity replaces ‘not-interested!’. Inspiration replaces ‘brain-expired’. And finally, wisdom replaces boredom. I envy those teachers and hope to become like them one day.

I wish the best of luck to the next person who thinks of a boarding the train to teacher town. I also brandish a flag of warning… the journey there is full of déjàvues and a’int no less than a ride on the knight bus! I also commend student teachers who start teaching people during their own student years. It takes effort and commitment. Hats off to those brave ones!

“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher

demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.” ~ William Arthur Ward